-- Posted by Anonymous at 6:55 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 ok i just had a talk with my "boyfriend" rite.... n i dont kno how we gt on this... but basically he told me he is bi...wat do i do?? -- Posted by Saralita at 6:56 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 well, are you okay with it? -- Posted by StrawberryGirlCode at 6:56 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 Try being supportive. It doesn't mean he's cheating. -- Posted by Stupidfacex at 6:56 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 Talk to him about it. If you're not comfortable, tell him. -- Posted by Anonymous at 6:57 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 i mean im ok with it...but still...he has this REALLY close guy friend who is always by his house n stuff -- Posted by hawaiinchuck at 6:57 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 Support him. -- Posted by sharpedgedpen at 6:57 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 *shrug* so? Even if he is bi, he's still with YOU. It shouldn't really make a differnce. Aside from the fact that you have a new bonding experience;) Scoping(though JUST scoping) out cute guys. *laughs slightly* I'm actually serious:P I did it with my ex...as strange as that may sound it was one of the most fun things i've ever done:P -- Posted by allysonautomatic at 6:57 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 mmmm...sexy go with it -- Posted by jessx at 6:58 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 Quote: from Anonymous at 6:57 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 i mean im ok with it...but still...he has this REALLY close guy friend who is always by his house n stuff hmm. well you dont know for sure that he's cheating or anything, right? -- Posted by PetitOiseau at 6:59 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 Support him. -- Posted by Anonymous at 6:59 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 no i guess i dont kno for sure...but im sure that hes reading this post right now...cuz hes on this site -- Posted by Spasty at 6:59 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 Quote: from Anonymous at 9:57 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 i mean im ok with it...but still...he has this REALLY close guy friend who is always by his house n stuff Do you like threesomes? -- Posted by Anonymous at 7:00 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 Quote: from Spasty at 10:59 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 Quote: from Anonymous at 9:57 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 i mean im ok with it...but still...he has this REALLY close guy friend who is always by his house n stuff Do you like threesomes? yea i do..but he hates them hes "SELFISH" he doesnt like to share -- Posted by SheMintsEclectic at 7:01 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 Be honest with him and tell him that it makes you feel slightly uncomfortable. -- Posted by Rastafarian at 7:02 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 As long as you are ok with it. I would suggest you support him. Often it is a very hard for a person to deal with their sexual difference by themselves. So, try and help him through this time of  transition by letting him know that his different sexuality doesn't change who he is as a person or the reason you are with him. I know what I'm talking about here my friend recently admitted to me he was gay.   Try and get him to talk about it, his experiences, the way he feels about it and so on.   It may not seem like much to you, but just them knowing that someone who they care about is ok with who they are as a person can often be a big help for these situations. EDIT: Additions. Quote: from Anonymous at 6:57 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 i mean im ok with it...but still...he has this REALLY close guy friend who is always by his house n stuff That's is good to hear that you are ok with it. If he has a guy friend that you think is potentially causing something for him. I suggest you talk to him about it. One hopes he will be truthful and tell you what is really going on. Know that in all relationships communication is key, and that telling how you feel, as well as supporting him through this will help. But really if you have any suspiscion over his guy friend just talk to him about it, and find out what is really going on. Alot of people think my friend and I are gay and together, just because we spend alot of time together, however we are not (well he is, but that's beside the point.) So they could be very well in the same situation as my friend and I... -- Posted by hawaiinchuck at 7:02 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 wierd -- Posted by jessx at 7:03 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 Quote: from Anonymous at 6:59 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 no i guess i dont kno for sure...but im sure that hes reading this post right now...cuz hes on this site hahaaa. maybe hell see it and try to understand? -- Posted by hooray for rootbeer at 7:03 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 there's nothing wrong with bisexuality.  just because he's bi doesn't  mean his feelings for you have changed. -- Posted by PrincesSita at 7:04 pm on Dec. 27, 2006 I think he probably has feelings for that guy since now he just told you he is bi and he is so close to him, just ask him