I have a theory that the feelings i have for my ex friend with benefits is simply transference. I had a thing for my best friends boyfriend. And having those feelings for him made me feel guilty so i suppressed them. But i guess i didn't shove them back far enough because they ended up going towards my FWB. My bff and her boyfriend broke up months ago. But he's still hers and always will be in my mind. So dating him is not an option.

 Now what do I do?

If you need a better explanation message me.

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it could be. or you could actually like him for real since the two of you do sexual things with each, im assuming

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We used to. But I'm only attracted to him sexually so i shouldn't have any attachment to him because we didn't have sex.

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All general statements are untrue.