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How to approach asking her out...
Replies: 8Last Post Nov. 12, 2008 10:08am by star girl
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( ahrens )


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Hi,

Im a junior in college and live in a fraternity. Recently Ive started to hang out with this girl from a sorority and Im not exactly sure how to approach asking her out. Over the past 4 days shes come over evey day to hang out, and when shes not here she more or less texts me most of the day. Only problem i see is when shes over here she acts the same flirtyness with all the guys but for the most part hangs out with me in my room. And shes not a stereotypical sorority girl, she doesnt drink at all.

So as far as approaching the situation i was debating about just asking her if we are kinda seeing each other. Or one thought would be just to ask her out to dinner and either go from there or ask her if we're seeing each other or what.

any thoughts? ideas? suggestions?


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Rollo Tomasi

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you've just been friend zoned

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Ask her to go see a movie or something.

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( ahrens )


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i dont think ive been friend zoned yet. she comes over all the time now, and come straight to my room and jsut hangs out there. Also the texting all the time lead me to believe she likes me. Especially when i walk her home she always texts me something like i had fun tonight, thanks for the walk home yadda yadda yadda.

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( ahrens )


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also should i text her the question as to if were seeing each other or ask her in person. I feel like i might get a more honest response in a text but in person is always better ive been told

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FfionFAITHLESS


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Ask her out, but give her two options. Like, d'you wanna go to the cinema or blah blah. I don't know. But that way she's more likely to say yes.

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star girl


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ask her to go n see a movie or something :) and get to know her a bit better than u do n then take it from there :)
good luck

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im trying to get to know her better i just dont wanna slip in friends zone. and i dont think i am yet. She texts me all the time through out the day.

although when we do hang out sometimes its just akwards, like we have nothing to say unless theres people around.


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well maybe get 1 of her friends to talk to her fr u

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