Quote: from Minnick at 8:40 am on Nov. 18, 2008
That's a sticky situation. Maybe explain to them both that you want to stay friend with them both and to keep their issues within their own time, not yours. You don't need to sit around and listen to bullshit about the other. You can be friends with both, there's nothing wrong in that. 
basically what they said.
Explain to your friends that u care about them both but you dont want to get involved,and tell them they need to figure this stuff out on there own.