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She makes me feel guilty that I'm going off to college.
Replies: 8 — Last Post Aug. 12, 2008 5:07pm by 721
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Like I'm leaving her behind forever. Her outbursts and breakdowns are really starting to get to me, I hate it. Mentally, I'm starting to be worn down again and I just can't seem to find a way to get out. I feel so guilty that I'm going away, almost to the point where she's getting to me so much that I am just not looking forward to college any longer, knowing how awful I'm making her feel.

I hate this.

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WeepingWillow

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who is she?

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mnight


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yeah, because that's totally your fault.
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Micus


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Once you finally move away you'll never have to hear her bitch ever again.

She'll get over it.

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Majo


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I can understand where you're both coming from, my boyfriend and I are/were in the same sort of situation.

I'm upset that he won't be with me but I don't want him to be uspet so I try to keep him happy which is what I think your girlfriend should be doing as well. Now is not the time to be selfish.

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"Under the hardness of her facade a woman's heart is still beating."

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MystiqueBeauty16


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Why are you blaming yourself? It's exactly what she(whoever she is) wants. She wants you to feel bad about yourself and blame yourself just so you'll stay with her. Don't let her get to you: You need a college education.

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Major


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my mom started sobbing today about how she doesn't want me to go off to college and abandon her and think about how horrible my childhood was and basically guilted me into staying in-state
i can definitely sympathize

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721


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moms can be selfish. just because they don't want to be alone... don't fall for it.

she's being manipulative!

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721


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Quote: from Majo at 8:00 pm on Aug. 11, 2008
I can understand where you're both coming from, my boyfriend and I are/were in the same sort of situation.

I'm upset that he won't be with me but I don't want him to be uspet so I try to keep him happy which is what I think your girlfriend should be doing as well. Now is not the time to be selfish.

okay whoa whoa whoa. mother-daughter relationship =/= boyfriend-girlfriend relationship...

and thats whats fucked up with the world today.

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