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why be a pregnant teenage/unmarried mother?
Replies: 15Last Post Aug. 23, 2008 7:12pm by JEESSICCAAAxx
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Why would you want to put yourself through that? Why have unprotected sex/sex at all when you don't have any future plans?(engaged ok) are you going to stay in school? Do you think you are going to stay in school? Don't the odds that are against pregnant mothers scare you?

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My people have discovered the ultimate loophole in your logic.

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i can't understand it as well !

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i would get an abortion if i got pregnant now.

i hate when young girls say they want to get pregnant. they're so damn stupid.

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I don't get people these days.
Might as well get all females tubes tied & born at birth.


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wow, you people are so mature. "they're so god damn stupid" "their tubes should be tied". yeah. okay. you tie up our tubes at birth and see if anyone ever has babies again, you cock sucking mother fucker. you don't understand what it feels like to want to be a teenage mother. not only do i suffer from depression and personality disorder, but i've been suffering from the want to have a child and be a teenage mother for 3 years now. it hurts. so until you've been there, keep your fucking trap shut. you have NO IDEA what feelings go into it.

4:38 pm on Aug. 17, 2008
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so, anonymous, your saying that having a child as a teenager will get rid of your depression and your personality disorder...NEWSFLASH it can make you more depressed and nothing can get rid of a personality disorder except for some type of pill or something.......so being a teenage mother wouldn't help either...it could probably make ti worse.

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Jumperchic your such an idiot, don't critisize  people who have the babies. obviously they made a mistake if the pregnancy was an accident but if they choose to give the baby a chance and a life and sacrifice all there future plans for their baby then they are obviously a lot more mature than you are. I am 16 I am pregnant, and until you are in the situation please shut the fuck up. We struggle with people like you everyday that push us down when it is so hard to try to stay positive. It is stressful and hard but it will all work out. Im finishing high school and then going to college and I will probably be more sucessful than you ever world be. I am doing this and I am the one being effected by this not you so shut the fuck up with your ignorant ass comments. thank you =].

6:37 pm on Aug. 17, 2008
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ya i agree with anonymous i want a baby real bad some one to love and take care of and know this person will love you and look up to you and know that you have that love thats between mother an child and to know that this special person is yours to keep and they wont hurt you

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Quote: from vanessajones88 at 12:41 am on Aug. 18, 2008

ya i agree with anonymous i want a baby real bad some one to love and take care of and know this person will love you and look up to you and know that you have that love thats between mother an child and to know that this special person is yours to keep and they wont hurt you

Lmao.  That always cracks me up.

Babies take much, much, much, much more than they give.  No, they may not hurt you, but they will drive you up a wall, make you crazy, and if you aren't prepared for parenthood, you may very well hurt them.

This is coming from a mother.  If you're just looking for something to love you, get a puppy, not another human being that will be your sole responsibility for 18 years.

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Quote: from vanessajones88 at 12:41 am on Aug. 18, 2008

ya i agree with anonymous i want a baby real bad some one to love and take care of and know this person will love you and look up to you and know that you have that love thats between mother an child and to know that this special person is yours to keep and they wont hurt you
Uh, the problem is that they grow up. And they won't always be so cuddly and cute and won't always love you.

Post edited at 4:59 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 by SimplisticComplexity

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Honestly, I was never scared of the odds.

99% of teen mothers who don't succeed fail because they have chosen to, not because there was some unbeatable odds facing them. It's a challenge to juggle your life and meet your child's needs, not an impossibility.

There are so many organizations out there that are designed for "second chances" (or third or fourth) and to help out and young mothers are the #1 pick for basically all of them. Having a kid basically gives you a free pass to the front lines of every food bank and top lists of every welfare/"free money" agency. There's schools that will work around your schedule, schools with daycares, schools near daycares, daycare subsidies, live in and live out nannies. Part-time jobs at every hour of the day basically.

It's really not that bad. Tough, yes. A torture or life-ending phenomenon? Hardly.

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I myself am a teen mom. I'm 19 and I have a 3yr old little boy. I got pregnant at 15 had my son at 16. I think all females that have unprotected sex knows down there risks of gettng pregnant or getting an STD. They  just shove it to the back of thier heads while thier having sex and hope it doesn't happen to them.(Not my case, my son was sorta planned) I think most females should stop having sex if they know they don't want to get pregnant bc birth control nor condoms are 100% effective

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some people make mistakes i know i have and now i might be pregnant with a 20 yr olds baby and i am only 18!! but that was my choice and it's not really anyone's business what we do!!!

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You think your depressed now!!!!

You dont need a baby you need a shrink!

you couldent take care of a barby doll, your the kind of female that gets bored easyly, your guna get bored fast with a newborn, then throw it away!

I know asshole girls like you that thought the baby would love them, thay grew up hating their mother , as they got older they get into trouble could never give her girl anything because she was always broke and then her 13yo got preg just like her and left it on her moms door step to start moms fucked up life all over again. waiting to be loved by baby.


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