I agree with CherryD, if you are telling yourself that he is too old, then you aren't sure about this relationship. I think it's a good idea that he wants to wait till you're 18, it's very responsible and mature of him to do that, and believe it or not he actually has your best interests, as well as his, at heart.

I'm not exactly sure what you mean by 'he treats me as his girl', but I'm assuming you mean he acts like you're together?
I wouldn't worry too much about this, sometimes when guys like girls (which he clearly does if he wants to date later in the future) they show it quite active ways, even if you aren't going out. Even if he doesn't 'like' you, he could still just be acting in a way that you're not comfortable with, and yet he thinks it's ok,

Try talking to him about it? Ask him what's happening and why he is acting like this, and if you're uncomfortable tell him, if you keep quiet it wont do any good.

Have a good day!
Hope I helped.

Posted at 3:38 am on Nov. 21, 2008

 Well, the keyword here is "too". You think he's too old. He's not just old, but too old. Too old for you. So if you are thinking like that, I doubt you are going to be prepared to be in a relationship with him.

 Apparently you are seem uncomfortable with this situation. If you are not, you wouldn't be thinking that he's too old for you, you would simply be wondering if the age gap is too wide instead of viewing him as too old.
 
So that's not good and I think it's best if you are not going to be in this relationship.

 But then again, not to fret, it's your own choices and I would respect them.

If he treats you as if you are his girlfriend, it means that he already feels as if he's in a relationship with you although it isn't official yet. That's a good sign, it shows that he's into you. Although if you feel uncomfortable about it you can always tell him that he might be going too far.

 And he seems pretty responsible too, if he's not willing to date you when you are still young and is willing to wait till a year later. If he says that, it means that he does want to be in a relationship with you. Because if he doesn't, he would have just walked away, so don't worry.

 Good luck and all the best with your relationship! =D And you can message me anytime if you want someone to talk to.

 

Posted at 10:29 pm on Nov. 20, 2008